Anonymous
07-08-2004, 06:20 AM
please correct
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What do you mean by "…..so that he too stays in your mind’", this is what I telling you that you are not able to accept me as his mother. You think only if I call frequently he will stay in my mind. In what basis you are saying this? I don’t understand the logic behind this statement. So if I call him daily, does it mean that he stays in my mind? And If I call him once in a week does it mean that he don’t stay in my mind? Suppose if I don’t call you till I come back does it mean that you don’t stay in my mind? I don’t feel so when I understand you, even if u doesn’t send email or sms, I know I stay in your mind. Understand one thing or at least try to, don’t gauge ones depth of love on the basis of number of calls made in a week or month or so. Think thrice before you throw words like this. Is it because that I have show up a desire to have a second baby? If a woman desires for a second baby, does it mean that her first child doesn’t stay in her mind? I admit that I have told you once that I don’t feel like that I want a baby of my own, still I think the same, because after our marriage I have never seen Sam as a child born to you and Susan. I have wholeheartedly accepted him as our son. I never want to become his step-mother. If you can’t accept me as his mother, then leave it but please don’t insult us, by saying this. The reason behind my desire is not the one you think, when I told to my mother, sister and aunty that if we have a second child I feel like it will hurt Sam when he gets older, when he knows the truth, they advised me to think positively that Sam will never get hurt when he know the truth when he gets older as they know and have confidence in me that I will take care of him as if Susan was alive. Even your friend micheal's mother told me the same thing. She advised me that only I can give Sam a brother or sister, so that he will not be alone in this world after us. Since you suspect that whether I will take care of Sam, I am afraid to have a second baby."
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What do you mean by "…..so that he too stays in your mind’", this is what I telling you that you are not able to accept me as his mother. You think only if I call frequently he will stay in my mind. In what basis you are saying this? I don’t understand the logic behind this statement. So if I call him daily, does it mean that he stays in my mind? And If I call him once in a week does it mean that he don’t stay in my mind? Suppose if I don’t call you till I come back does it mean that you don’t stay in my mind? I don’t feel so when I understand you, even if u doesn’t send email or sms, I know I stay in your mind. Understand one thing or at least try to, don’t gauge ones depth of love on the basis of number of calls made in a week or month or so. Think thrice before you throw words like this. Is it because that I have show up a desire to have a second baby? If a woman desires for a second baby, does it mean that her first child doesn’t stay in her mind? I admit that I have told you once that I don’t feel like that I want a baby of my own, still I think the same, because after our marriage I have never seen Sam as a child born to you and Susan. I have wholeheartedly accepted him as our son. I never want to become his step-mother. If you can’t accept me as his mother, then leave it but please don’t insult us, by saying this. The reason behind my desire is not the one you think, when I told to my mother, sister and aunty that if we have a second child I feel like it will hurt Sam when he gets older, when he knows the truth, they advised me to think positively that Sam will never get hurt when he know the truth when he gets older as they know and have confidence in me that I will take care of him as if Susan was alive. Even your friend micheal's mother told me the same thing. She advised me that only I can give Sam a brother or sister, so that he will not be alone in this world after us. Since you suspect that whether I will take care of Sam, I am afraid to have a second baby."